Dominating your partner doesn’t have to be terrifying So you and a partner have been getting into some kinky stuff lately, and now your person wants you to try dominating them. If your first response is something like “Help, what do I do?!?” then you’ve come to the right place. Some people’s … [Read more...] about The Beginner’s Guide to Domination
How To Use Safewords: Sexy Traffic Signals on Your Kinky Journey
“Safewords” are a popular enough concept that you may have heard jokes about them on network TV. Basically, it’s a word you and a kinky partner choose – something you wouldn’t ever say during sex, like “rutabaga” or “Zuckerberg.” If one of you says it during playtime, everything stops until you’ve … [Read more...] about How To Use Safewords: Sexy Traffic Signals on Your Kinky Journey
Subspace: What It Is, Why It’s Hot, and How to Get There
If you’ve Googled “subspace,” you may have been frustrated by pages of articles on linear algebra and Star Trek. But experienced kinksters know that subspace is a mental place a submissive, bottom or masochist can go in a scene. What exactly is it, how do you get there, and why would you want to go … [Read more...] about Subspace: What It Is, Why It’s Hot, and How to Get There
Pansexual, Omnisexual, Cishet and More: A Glossary of Sexualities and Genders
[Content warning: This is a 101 guide to the current preferred terms for sexualities and genders. We’re going to talk about slurs here, in order to be clear about what terms are considered offensive. We know these terms are hurtful to many people. However, we also know that there are people who want … [Read more...] about Pansexual, Omnisexual, Cishet and More: A Glossary of Sexualities and Genders
Sexy Solutions: How Endorphins From Kink Play Can Help Depression
For most bottoms out there who enjoy pain, happy brain chemicals called endorphins create their jollies. Even to a heavy masochist, pain hurts. But the body has a way of responding to pain and stress that can make it hurt so good. This might be important for folks with depression, who have trouble … [Read more...] about Sexy Solutions: How Endorphins From Kink Play Can Help Depression
